Every woman wants to look and feel sexy. Nothing is sexier than a girl who can dance on a pole, visually pleasing every man whose eyes are locked only on her. Though that’s not the hot topic of the day – we’re hoping to draw some attention on the bachelorette party where you and your favourite girls head out to a dance gym to take on a pole and learn some exotic dancing techniques. Besides, your man waiting patiently for you at home will thank you for it. This type of dance is good for you too – you can burn up to 250 calories in one pole dance session alone and you get to build and tone your core muscles. What’s more is that exotic dancing helps strengthen your stomach and thighs and of course, improve a woman’s overall confidence. Most exotic dance gyms offer private party lessons so you shouldn’t become self-conscious, worried about being around other women in the studio whom you don’t know. Here are a few things you need to consider before you start booking one or two classes for you and the girls:
Make sure everyone’s comfortable with this idea
Of course, these are classes where you can’t take your mother, grandmother or your little 13-year-old cousin who happens to be in the bridal party. This is an 18+ event but regardless of age, it is not suited for everyone. Keep an event like this as a bachelorette party, too, not as a bridal shower as this type of exotic dancing may offend some women or may just be downright inappropriate for others. The women you invite need to be aware that this type of dancing requires someone to let loose, be completely free and unleash her inner sexiness. Often times students of exotic dance classes are expected to climb a pole, make pleasure faces and several sexy poses and she would need to be brave enough to do all of these in front of her peers and instructors.
Is everyone physically capable?
Pole dancing and exotic dancing requires the usage of many muscles. As well, you’re stretching out many parts of the body. Not every girl in your group of friends may feel they are physically capable of doing a lot of the dance routines. Also, be sure no one has any physical injury or physical setback as every routine includes moving many parts of the body simultaneously. Make it clear to all who plan on attending that these classes involve a lot of physical exertion and that they should employ caution when doing certain dance moves that may place strain on certain parts of the body.
Make sure the invitation is clear
Ensure that everyone is aware that this is exotic dancing and not your ordinary dance class. The invitation should heighten that this is an experience that will improve your friends’ posture, self-confidence and flexibility. These classes are all about the empowered woman and bringing out the confident, sexy woman you all have inside. Make it clear that dress code for this type of event should be comfortable and include a tank top, runners and shorts. Shorts are to be worn because in order to grip the pole, a woman needs to have her bare legs. However, once you book your classes, your instructors can give you suggestions on a proper dress code – sometimes that may include high heels!